Self Reliance -A key to success

    "The best place to find a helping hand is at the end of your own arm"
Many people lack self-reliance. By self-reliance I merely mean the ability to rely on ourselves to do whatever we feel should be done. As a children we depended on our parents. We depended on our teachers for good education.We also depends on our parents and teachers to get success in our life.We also depends on other persons to experience the new world.Later when we tried to assert ourselves by making our own decisions, we were often criticized and punished for making mistakes.So,as a result we lose confidence to make our own lives. And we follow others instead of thinking what we are right or not.As a result a heavy price is paid and we become slaves of others instead of the master of our destiny.
              Cannot be happy unless we are in control of our own lives. For this reason, the roughly 2000 years old Hindu text called The Laws of Manu states, "Depend not on another, but lean instead on you.True happiness is born of self-reliance."Some people rely on GOD whenever they are in jam.But I agree with it  that, "God loves to help him who strives to help himself."
   We can no longer depends on our parents. We cannot ask to GOD for assistance unless we do not use his given abilities and potentials. So we are responsible for our own lives. So we believe our own work and dignity. We should not depend on others.Running from unpleasant task may give you temporary relief but makes you dull.As a result you lose confidence and dignity.When we believe our own work and self-reliance, we gain confidence, high self-esteem, dignity and happiness. We are respected everywhere. Also GOD helps us in our tasks. So, we should believe self-reliance.
Let's review some techniques to delvelop self-relience. 
    If you are not interested in unpleasant tasks.so you should design a time table and leave some hours for unpleasant tasks. As a result you will develop high self-reliance in two weeks and you will gain interest in your works. 
    "Practice makes a man perfect "
You should do practice daily for your works. As a result you will be self-reliance.
  Read the inspiring story or motivational quote or clips to develop self-reliance.
When you become  self-reliance , you have got a key of success. You succeeded.
                                               (BY:AZAD TRDIYA)